One Monday morning at work, Neil, a young professional, shared with me that his brother was in critical condition after an accident that weekend. We talked a while. I listened, empathized, and before turning to head back to my office, I told him I would keep his brother in my prayers. He thanked me and said, “Now, please.” He looked at me intently and said, “Please, go to your office and pray, now for my brother.” I told him I would, and I did. Thankfully, his brother had a full recovery.
The exchange impressed upon me the need to “pray, now” – to take immediate action.
Recently, Jared, a young man in our community, sustained severe injuries after being hit by a car only days after returning to his college campus to start his sophomore year. His mother, Cathy, and her family have kept the growing community of concerned supporters up to date on his health, sharing their praises- thanking God for specific improvements, as well as specific prayer requests based on what is happening with him at the moment.
Reading her updates, one is immediately struck by her family’s strong faith in God and anticipation of healing for her son. Despite her family’s excruciating situation, they grow love by inviting others to share in their hope and faith for a full recovery for Jared, and to cherish the moments we have with loved ones. They grow love as they amplify their prayer.
Grief is a natural reaction when we think about situations like Jared’s accident and the struggle he and his family continue to endure. However, let’s make sure we parlay that concern into becoming part of the solution. Let’s act. When we read an update, let’s stop, take a deep breath, and pray to God to answer those specific needs.
Let’s be sure to recognize the other part of the request, now please.
“Cor ad cor loquitor”– “Heart speaks to heart”– motto of Blessed John Henry Newman